Gemma, 51

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About Gemma

Hi I'm Gemma and i'm a mature student at Portsmouth University. Being a student does not allow me the luxury of a social life (contry to anyones assumptions of being a student!) in between being skint working or studying i seem to have negleted my basic needs, intimacy. Coming to the end of my studies now and feeling as if i may have missed out, who knows thou!!<br><br>My Idea of Our Perfect First Date:<br>We've built up such chemistry on the phone that when I open the door and see you, I grab you by the back of the neck and kiss you before I even leave the house. (Note: Don't you DARE try this -- some fantasies are best left as fantasies.)<br><br>My Perception of an Ideal Relationship:<br>Complete and utter comfort. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit in your room working while I do a crossword and I'm entirely content. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Down and dirty sex and warm and comforting cuddling are ever present. Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. Unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love grant us the foundation for a lasting long-term relationship.<br><br>What I've Learned from Past Relationships:<br>Flossing is important. Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards.