JC, 58

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About JC

Ok, I'm not going to beat around the bush. But I am looking for a tantric lover. All this dating stuff has caused me to think deeply about what's most meaningful to me and what I really want from life. Ultimately, I aspire to the tantric yoga high of universal oneness and infinite timelessness that's at the end of the tantric road. In order to get there I need a partner, who shares this aspiration, to join me on this ecstatic journey. It's clearly the road less travelled with an end not easy to reach, but I think I'm determined enough to get there, I'm glad that it's my goal and I know I'll enjoy the ride, as it were. Of course that's all well and good but if we have nothing else in common and don't fancy each other in the first place then it's a bit of a non starter.<br><br>So, I'm a good-looking guy who can be strong, tender or passionate as the moment demands. I like to smile and I'm cheerful, helpful and relaxed about most things and like to take life as it comes, without any real drama. I think that's because I'm thoughtful and considerate in a very objective and pragmatic way. I love fixing and designing things, so I see life as an amusing puzzle, most of the time, so I'm usually just focused on finding solutions. I'm also slightly unconventional and alternative in my outlook (but you knew that) so I don't like most superficial mainstream stuff. I like cooking and eating good food while drinking good wine and having a laugh with my family and friends. I like to stay quite fit and enjoy most outdoor stuff, as long as I'm not getting too cold and wet while I'm at it. Aromatherapy, massage, yoga, eastern philosophy and quantum mechanics take care of my spiritual side and keep me happily optimistic and balanced. I'm as happy staying in as going out and most of my time out is spent dining with friends. When I'm not doing that I enjoy real ale pubs rather than clubs these days but I still like to dance when an opportunity comes along. If you're a tantric master that's great, I'm not and you needn't be. But, if you share this aspiration and you think we might get on...